• When to Stop Fighting

    Do y’all believe in fate? Or synchronicity (not the amazing album by the Police, I assume everyone here believes in that)? If things are… aligned, should they feel effortless?  I don’t know if anything in my life really has had that, not fully. I am lucky as all fuckabout, but I’ve also hustled my full…

  • Fear and Lies

      What are you afraid of?  The boogeyman?  Snakes? Being vulnerable? I’ve been thinking lots of thoughts, and feeling lots of things (I prefer the thoughts, honestly). And how honest are we really? When you talk to others, but more importantly, how honest are you when you talk to yourself? I think about things that…

  • Who holds your umbrella during the shit storm?

    Wanna freak people out? Thank them for being in your life. I had a bloody awful morning. The waves of physical, mental and emotional exhaustion were sweeping my ass out to sea. It was bad. And… in that place, with the few gasps of air I could manage in between being pulled under, I was…

  • What tangled webs we weave…

    Do you ever do something you know you shouldn’t? Does knowing you shouldn’t sometimes make you want to do it even more? Why do we think the forbidden fruit will taste better, I wonder…

  • Two Word Advice

    Do y’all know Robin Sharma? Crazy popular author in the self help world… like.. millions of books sold.  I mostly like what he does. I found this on pinterest so, it may not be the most accurate (I’m honestly kinda guessing at his bit, to help me get to mine…).  I think he was asked,…

  • Bad Male Behavior

    Guys. Woof.  Please note, I realize I’m gonna be making sweeping generalizations about an entire gender. I get it. I do know so many amazing, kind, respectful, courteous, sweet guys. (I’ll get more into that soon). So, when I’m saying, “men do blah blah blah…” I know not every guy. Disclaimer done. So, guys…. woof….…

  • To Offend or Not to Offend…

        I started writing a post a few weeks back and.. it’s still saved to drafts, along with half a dozen other abandoned ideas but there is a difference.  Normally if I don’t flesh out a post, if it ends up in the “saved drafts” graveyard, it’s because I don’t feel like there is…

  • Co-worker: I’m getting serious about my diet, ladies Me, eating chocolate and potato chips at 8:30am: …

  • Tinder Mud

    Tinder Mud

    I have a link to here on my Tinder profile. I know that is where most of my traffic comes from. (Hey Tinder peeps!). So let’s talk about Tinder. If you were directed here, from there, you’ve seen my profile. Give me just a sec though to recap for anyone else. I have my profile…

  • Fun in Autocorrect Land

    My phone somehow auto corrected the word “caffeine” to the word “vagina” so I almost just told a friend I was attempting to reduce my vagina intake… so that’s my Monday lol